Shadow – conceals deep fears behind verbal or physical abuse
Honestly assess whether you have a lifelong pattern of bullying others to cover your own fear
Can anyone help me with this one? I am a little confused here – on the light attribute side highlights that you have a tendency to intimidate others – whereas the shadow side is all about concealment. Well, anyhow, Bully is an archetype that I deal with quite a lot. So, I had better get it!
For me, Bully is about power and control – how can I conquer you – it may be subtle or sneaky – chipping away at someone’s self esteem or it can be downright obvious – with verbal or physical stand over tactics.
I consider Saturn to be a bully – well I am sorry, I do! He pushes us into making tough decisions and now he has moved from the details oriented sign to a relationship focus. So if you feel that your relationship is under scrutiny you know why.
It’s a day of changes on the numerological front; the structures built yesterday are being tested by the force of the five.
Judgement is about letting go of the past hurts – it’s a brand new day – let go and love l into your life.
The world is abundant and rich with possibilities. You have the world at your feet – there is no denying that – all you need to do is step onto the threshold of an exciting and bountiful new era.
Death creeps into our reading this morning bringing and ending and giving us permission to say good bye to the old and outworn – out with the old and prepare for the new.
Justice and respect are the best ways to treat a bully – stand your ground and do not allow them to run rough shot over you – set your boundaries and don’t relinquish your power – it only feeds their inflated sense of self.
Bullies come in all shapes and sizes – sometimes you don’t even realise that you are being bullied until you walk away and it sinks in. If that is the case, don’t allow it to seep into your self esteem and erode your confidence – instead focus on the brilliance and love within you. As crazy as it may seem – send them love and healing. Just think how difficult it is for them being that cruel and tormented?
Love, Peace and Unconditional Healing Power,
Julia Ashton-Sayers
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